Tēnā koe e hoa,
I identify as tangata tiriti, with my ancestors emigrating from England via South Africa to Aotearoa, before I was born. Between us, my partner and I have six adult children, with a growing number of mokopuna. We have two rascally miniature schnauzers that we love to walk with in open spaces. I enjoy comedy, movies, and music, and embrace spirituality and creativity. I usually have various art projects on the go, enhanced by my Bachelor of Arts degree.
Having been a registered nurse working in mental health for over 25 years, I was introduced to Internal Family Systems experientially by a clinical supervisor. Journeying with this wonderfully compassionate counselling modality for myself was the catalyst for completing my Master of Counselling degree.
I especially resonate with the holistic approach of IFS, and embrace taha wairua (spiritual wellbeing), taha hinengaro (mental and emotional wellbeing), taha tinana (physical wellbeing), taha whānau (family and social wellbeing) and the importance of whenua (the land).
Working humbly with diversity is of interest to me, especially further to being diagnosed with ADHD a few years ago. My master’s research was on the lived experience of women receiving a diagnosis of ADHD in adulthood, and the implications for counselling. Counselling that is aware and affirming of neuro-difference, that follows the lead of the person, and the value of group therapy were among the research findings.
I believe IFS is a great fit for diversity if these differences are understood and celebrated. I work in creative ways with images, figurines, art, and humour in my private practice.
I welcome hearing from you.
Ngā mihi
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